A virus
Which
multiplies itself
Eats
away mental peace
Splits
the relationship
Confuses
others
Hurts
the emotions
Kills the
cherished love
Unfolds
the gray shade of loved ones
Leads to
hatred and regrets
Makes life
difficult
And the association
traumatic
If you
ask me, I would say that I am a very possessive person. I know that it is bad; that it hurts others!
I am not exaggerating when I say that I hate the sight of my mother playing with other kid; or even talk with care and affection. I can’t tolerate when my father shows
concern to others. Yes, even today!
But, possessiveness towards parents is understandable and it would not hurt
others much, particularly, if you are a single child like I am! Woohooooo, some solace there.
Apart
from that, all other relationship can be ruined by the predator called possessiveness.
Why there
is so much news about harassment and conflicts between the in-laws? The
parents and siblings find it difficult to see their son/brother being shared by a
third person, called 'wife’.
Why there
are so many break-ups? The partner is may not like to see his/her
loved ones talking freely or befriending to others.
Why
friends are not in touch forever? Because when new people start coming in
life, they tend to become possessive and start thinking that new people are entering
due to lack of proper bonding. However, that may not even be the reason.
Trust me, possessiveness
has the capability to ruin any relationship. It erupts when you are unsure
about your love and suspect others. Understanding the loved ones and
being secure in a relationship is the key to slaughter the devil called possessiveness. Come on it has the tendency to hurt others. When the loved ones is hurt beyond the
limit, they start walking away. One day, they would be too far away to reach out.
Possessiveness
is not the solution to hold back your love. It is not the means to seek their attention.
Instead, it is true love, understanding and caring that is superior. Also, shoo
off insecurity. Then, nothing in this World can conspire to take away your love
from you.
Just
understand…
Someone
is with you because they love you.
Suspicion
would hurt them.
They
would start doubting if they are good enough for you.
They feel
upset seeing you disheartened and dejected.
They try
to make you understand.
They try
to ward off your insecurities.
But, if
they realize that there actions are only hurting you further, they start
walking away slowly.
Please don’t
let that happen.
Let love
conquer.
Not
jealousy and possessiveness.
Enjoy love!!
Stay
spellbound by the magic cast by it!
.Possessiveness...
ReplyDeleteRequired a bit in everyone... But the level s increased... Then It really become a cause to loose someone...so show ur possessive but don't show over possessive...
Mad... U r handled the topic very nicely.:) liked mad...
So many truth r come out ...hmmmm ...
;)
Thanks Siv :)
DeleteThe key to a healthy relationship is to give space for someone to love the way they want to, possessiveness is an outcome of fear of losing and as it starts so it manifests in the death of a relationship.Trust builds it.:)
ReplyDeleteThanks Vijaya :)
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